When do you think Ruby and Nate really connected?

It took a while for Ruby to finally connect with Nate. The day that she connected with him she finally got a hint of what was going on with him and it helped her. They finally connected on Thanksgiving when Ruby went over to Nate's house. Ruby heard Nate's dad yell at him and smash a shelf to the ground. This gave Ruby a clue that there might be something wrong and she wanted to help. Nate tried to push Ruby away but she wouldn't allow that. This definitely helped their relationship grow.